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* ''Kirby: Right Back At Ya!'': The cappies of cappy town have a habit of blaming Kirby when things start to get too intense for them. Forgetting that Dedede has been ordering monsters before Kirby even showed up and he certainly did'nt ask to be hunted by some psycho company. The worst of it is in the finale where after Kirby has been rendered unconscious and thus unable to do anything while cappy Town was destroyed the villiagers all turn on him and even tell him to leave. And they never apologize for this during the finale either.

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* ''Kirby: Right Back At Ya!'': Ya!'' The cappies of cappy town have a habit of blaming Kirby when things start to get too intense for them. Forgetting that Dedede has been ordering monsters before Kirby even showed up and he certainly did'nt ask to be hunted by some psycho company. The worst of it is in the finale where after Kirby has been rendered unconscious and thus unable to do anything while cappy Town was destroyed the villiagers all turn on him and even tell him to leave. And they never apologize for this during the finale either.

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* ''Manga/MyLoveStory'', kicking off the entire series, a man who was caught groping Rinko on the train tries to defend himself by saying she was "asking for it". [[{{Understatement}} Takeo disagrees.]] [[MegatonPunch Strongly.]]

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* ''Manga/MyLoveStory'', kicking off the entire series, a man who was caught groping Rinko on the train tries to defend himself by saying she was "asking for it".

* ''Kirby: Right Back At Ya!'': The cappies of cappy town have a habit of blaming Kirby when things start to get too intense for them. Forgetting that Dedede has been ordering monsters before Kirby even showed up and he certainly did'nt ask to be hunted by some psycho company. The worst of it is in the finale where after Kirby has been rendered unconscious and thus unable to do anything while cappy Town was destroyed the villiagers all turn on him and even tell him to leave. And they never apologize for this during the finale either.

[[{{Understatement}} Takeo disagrees.]] [[MegatonPunch Strongly.]]
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* In ''Series/GameOfThrones'', Brienne and Jaime come across the bodies of three women who were hanged by Stark soldiers for having sex with Lannister soldiers, whom they are currently at war with; they state the women deserved it because they betrayed their country. Brienne [[CurbStompBattle disagrees]]. To make matters worse, it's left ambiguous if the three women willingly had sex with the Lannister soldiers at all, seeing as both sides are guilty of committing war crimes against the smallfolk.

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* In ''Series/GameOfThrones'', Brienne and Jaime come across the bodies of three women who were hanged by Stark soldiers for having sex with Lannister soldiers, whom they are currently at war with; they state the women deserved it because they betrayed their country. Brienne [[CurbStompBattle disagrees]]. To make matters worse, it's left ambiguous if the three women willingly had sex with the Lannister soldiers at all, seeing as both sides are guilty of committing war crimes against the smallfolk. The only real difference is that the Lannisters did so under orders from Lord Tywin as part of an intentional terror campaign; the Northern soldiers who engage in RapePillageAndBurn did so largely against King Robb's wishes. Not that it a matters for the average commoner.
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** Another episode of ''Leverage'' has a corrupt Vice-President at a food company destroying reports of tainted food. He justifies it to the Leverage Team by saying that the package specifically states to heat the food to a particular temperature to avoid bacteria so that if people get sick, it's their own fault for not following proper instructions. This is a subversion, however, as he's threatening Hardison as he says it.

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** Another episode of ''Leverage'' has a corrupt Vice-President at a food company destroying reports of tainted food. He justifies it to the Leverage Team by saying that the package specifically states to heat the food to a particular temperature to avoid bacteria so that if people get sick, it's their own fault for not following proper instructions. This is a subversion, however, as he's threatening Hardison as he says it.

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* ''Series/{{Leverage}}'', more than a few [[VillainOfTheWeek Villains of the Week]] defend themselves by laying blame at the feet of their victims, but the standout example has to be Greg "The Mako" Sherman. When instructing his underlings on how to rip off their victims, he declares, "If they're too dumb to hold on to their money, they don't deserve to have it."

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than a few [[VillainOfTheWeek Villains of the Week]] defend themselves by laying blame at the feet of their victims, but the standout example has to be Greg "The Mako" Sherman. When instructing his underlings on how to rip off their victims, he declares, "If they're too dumb to hold on to their money, they don't deserve to have it."
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* Parodied by ''Series/TheWhitestKidsUKnow'' in the sketch "The Grapist". It involves a consultant pitching an ad for a creepy fruit soda mascot who's a blatant [[DoesThisRemindYouOfAnything rape metaphor]]: he bursts into people's bedrooms (including children's) in the dead of night and "grapes" them in the mouth. At one point, [[RefugeInAudacity the consultant claims that the little girl in the ad deserves to get graped]].
-->'''Consultant:''' Look at her! She's begging to get graped!
-->'''Executive:''' Will you listen to what you're saying!?
-->'''Consultant:''' Look at what she's wearing!
-->'''Executive:''' ''Look at what she's wearing?!''
-->'''Consultant:''' It's purple!
-->'''Executive:''' Oh. [[ThatCameOutWrong Wait, no, no no NO!]]
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As this is both TruthInTelevision and a highly sensitive matter, No Real Life Examples.

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In fiction, Blaming The Victim usually takes on one of two basic forms. In the first, the perpetrator is attempting to justify their own bad behavior.

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In fiction, Blaming The Victim usually takes on one of two basic forms. forms.

In the first, the perpetrator is attempting to justify their own bad behavior.
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In fiction, the Blaming The Victim usually takes on one of two basic forms. In the first, the perpetrator is attempting to justify their own bad behavior.

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In fiction, the Blaming The Victim usually takes on one of two basic forms. In the first, the perpetrator is attempting to justify their own bad behavior.

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* ''Series/CobraKai'': The season 2 finale has Tory start a fight with Sam which escalates into a gang brawl between Miyagi-Do and Cobra Kai students, resulting in both Sam and Miguel being hospitalized. Even though Tory started the fight, Sam is still treated as if she is equally or entirely to blame and gets suspended for two weeks. At a PTA meeting to decide how to deal with school violence, one of the parents accuses Sam of "tramping around" with Tory's boyfriend as if that excuses Tory attacking her.
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* In ''VisualNovel/DanganronpaTriggerHappyHavoc'', one of the students pruposes an additional "no leaving your room at nighttime" to others in an attempt to prevent murders. In the second chapter, [[spoiler:When Celeste, the one who pruposed the rule, finds out that Chihiro, the chapter's murder victim, was wondering around the school's second floor at night, [[KickTheDog she very casually says that Chihiro's death was Chihiro's own fault for disrespecting her self-imposed rule]]]].
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* ''WesternAnimation/WonderWoman2009'': Artemis loathes her younger sister Aleka's lack of fighting skills and preference of books over battle. When Aleka is murdered by the traitorous Amazon Persephone, Artemis is more disgusted at Aleka for failing to stop Persephone than shaken up by her death. When Aleka is resurrected as a zombie by Ares, Artemis calls her a disgrace.
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* ''Film/Daredevil2003'': Early in the film, Matt and Foggy are defending a woman named Angela who was raped by a rich and powerful man named Jose Quesada. Both Quesada and his lawyer argue that the sexual encounter was consensual and use Angela's criminal history against her. Quesada is acquitted, leading to Matt taking matters into his own hands.

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* ''Film/Daredevil2003'': Early in the film, Matt and Foggy are defending a woman named Angela who was raped by a rich and powerful man named Jose Quesada. Both Quesada and his lawyer argue that the sexual encounter was consensual and use Angela's criminal history against her. Quesada is acquitted, leading to Matt taking matters into his own hands.



** One particular episode of ''Series/LawAndOrderSVU'' has a victim who wrote a novel similar to ''Literature/FiftyShadesOfGray''. The perpetrator tries to say that it was a completely consensual act based on her books, hoping the public, and thus the jury pool, will engage in Blaming The Victim and feel that she deserved it. A.D.A. Barba tricks the defendant into demonstrating with a belt how he choked the woman. The man responds, after some provocation, into pulling hard on the belt in front of the jury. Barba demonstrated that as hard as it had pulled on his throat, it had barely left a mark, then showed photographs of the deep bruising it had done on the woman's throat. The jury rejects the defendant's argument.

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** One particular episode of ''Series/LawAndOrderSVU'' has a victim who wrote a novel similar to ''Literature/FiftyShadesOfGray''. The perpetrator tries to say argues that it was a completely consensual act based on her books, hoping the public, and thus the jury pool, will engage in Blaming The Victim blame her and feel that she deserved it. A.D.A. Barba tricks the defendant into demonstrating with a belt how he choked the woman. The man responds, after some provocation, into pulling hard on the belt in front of the jury. Barba demonstrated that as hard as it had pulled on his throat, it had barely left a mark, then showed photographs of the deep bruising it had done on the woman's throat. The jury rejects the defendant's argument.
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* ''ComicBook/WonderWoman1987'': In issue #95, Artemis visits a shelter for women escaping abused relationships. Artemis asks one woman why she didn't fight back against her abusive husband. When the woman responds that the man would have killed her, Artemis coldly responds, "Good! Better they starve than have a mother who is a parasite and a coward!". Even a reporter doing a newscast on the shelter is appalled by this response.

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* ''ComicBook/WonderWoman1987'': In issue #95, Artemis visits a shelter for women escaping abused relationships. Artemis asks one woman why she didn't fight back against her abusive husband. When the woman responds that the man would have killed her, leaving her children to starve, Artemis coldly responds, responds "Good! Better they starve than have a mother who is a parasite and a coward!". Even a reporter doing a newscast on the shelter is appalled by this response.
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* ''ComicBook/WonderWoman1987'': In issue #95, Artemis visits a shelter for women escaping abused relationships. Artemis asks one woman why she didn't fight back against her abusive husband. When the woman responds that the man would have killed her, Artemis coldly responds, "Good! Better they starve than have a mother who is a parasite and a coward!". Even a reporter doing a newscast on the shelter is appalled by this response.
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* The plot of ''Literature/{{Worm}}'' is set up by the protagonist Taylor being bullied to the point of a TraumaticSuperpowerAwakening by three female classmates, one of whom is a lawyer's daughter with enough social clout to make sure that not only is Taylor not believed but is also made to look like she's antagonizing them unprovoked.

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This is the favorite tactic of a ManipulativeBastard. Compare and contrast with AssholeVictim (although the perpetrator might try to cast their victim as such) and KickTheSonOfABitch, which is where a character is thought to deserve what happens to them but isn't necessarily blamed for it.

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This is the favorite tactic of a ManipulativeBastard. Compare and contrast with AssholeVictim (although the perpetrator might try to cast their victim as such) and KickTheSonOfABitch, which is where a character is thought to deserve what happens to them but isn't necessarily blamed for it. A [[TheSocialDarwinist Social Darwinist]] may also use this tactic, blaming any victims as being "weak" or otherwise unworthy of survival.



* The UsefulNotes/NintendoDS tie-in game for the first ''Film/{{Transformers}}'' film has Megatron crush the player character for being [[YouHaveOutlivedYourUsefulness badly damaged]]. The player character protests that he could be repaired, but Megatron kills him and [[YourSoulIsMine devours his Spark]] anyway, sneering it would be a waste of resources. Naturally, Megatron ignores that the player character helped [[UngratefulBastard thaw him out of his frozen prison]] and had just fought (and defeated!) an [=AllSpark=]-empowered [[TheStarscream Starscream]] (which was the cause of his heavy damage).

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* The UsefulNotes/NintendoDS tie-in game for the first ''Film/{{Transformers}}'' film has Megatron crush dismiss the deaths of loyal Decepticons Blackout and [[EvilMentor Barricade]] at the hands of an [=AllSpark=]-empowered [[TheStarscream Starscream]] as them being "weak" before turning on the player character for being [[YouHaveOutlivedYourUsefulness badly damaged]]. The player character protests that he could be repaired, but Megatron kills him and [[YourSoulIsMine devours his Spark]] anyway, sneering it would be a waste of resources. Naturally, Megatron ignores that the player character helped [[UngratefulBastard thaw him out of his frozen prison]] and had just fought (and defeated!) an [=AllSpark=]-empowered [[TheStarscream Starscream]] Starscream [[BrokeYourArmPunchingOutCthulhu (which was the cause of his heavy damage).reason he was badly damaged)]].


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* ''VideoGame/TransformersWarForCybertron'': In the first level, Megatron happens upon a triage station set up to tend to wounded Decepticons. He expresses his disgust, snarling that Decepticons should either be fighting, or '''dead'''.
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* ''Creator/IDWPublishing'': The Monstrosity mini-series has Scorponok [[TheStarscream (having seized control of the Decepticons after overthrowing Megatron)]] launch a massive assault on an Energon facility, then destroy it in the belief that the resulting scarcity will lead to mass chaos where only [[TheSocialDarwinist the strongest will survive]]. When other Decepticons point out he's just killed many of their own troops, he dismisses the casualties as "weak" and undeserving of living, [[InsaneTrollLogic never mind that very few Transformers can survive being at ground zero of an explosion visible from]] '''[[InsaneTrollLogic space]]'''.


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* ''Creator/MarvelComics'':
** X-Men villain [[Characters/MarvelComicsApocalypse Apocalypse]] is prone to doing this in his less well-written appearances, calling people "weak" for losing even if the loss is due to extenuating circumstances. This comes back to bite him in the "Apocalypse versus Dracula" mini-series when his own descendants opt to become vampires and join Dracule due to being sick of his BadBoss tendencies.
** Part of the reason the ''ComicBook/CivilWar'' event was so divisive was the impression that the Pro-Registration side was pulling this on the Anti-Registration side. While the Pro-Reg side did have good points for throwing their support behind the Super Human Registration Act (SHRA), [[WhyDidYouMakeMeHitYou blaming the Anti-Reg side for being "unreasonable"]] rang hollow when they did things like trying to arrest '''''ComicBook/CaptainAmerica''''' before the SHRA was even ratified [[note]] Cap declined to agree to lead the task force SHIELD intended to set up to hunt down people who didn't register [[/note]] and launched an unprovoked attack on Luke Cage in his own house just after midnight (when the SHRA came into effect).


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* The UsefulNotes/NintendoDS tie-in game for the first ''Film/{{Transformers}}'' film has Megatron crush the player character for being [[YouHaveOutlivedYourUsefulness badly damaged]]. The player character protests that he could be repaired, but Megatron kills him and [[YourSoulIsMine devours his Spark]] anyway, sneering it would be a waste of resources. Naturally, Megatron ignores that the player character helped [[UngratefulBastard thaw him out of his frozen prison]] and had just fought (and defeated!) an [=AllSpark=]-empowered [[TheStarscream Starscream]] (which was the cause of his heavy damage).
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* ''VideoGame/BioShock'': Victim-blaming is the main reason Andrew Ryan’s ‘Great Chain’ fails; he fundamentally refuses to believe that there is a difference between someone being unwilling to pull themselves up by their bootstraps or being ''unable'' to do so due to circumstance. His final speech even has shades of him blaming [[spoiler: ''Jack'' for being a slave who was ''sold, experimented on, and brainwashed.'']]
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* ''ComicBook/JudgeDredd'': This is part of the Judges' over-the-top attitude to policing. The Judges will often arrest the victims of a crime for "enticement", if for example, their car was stolen in a high-crime district or if they were seen with expensive jewelry. Even if they aren't, the victims of a major crime are often still arrested for one of several lesser ones, including [[JaywalkingWillRuinYourLife jaywalking]].

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* ''ComicBook/JudgeDredd'': This is part of the Judges' over-the-top attitude to policing. The Judges will often arrest the victims of a crime for "enticement", "incitement", if for example, their car was stolen in a high-crime district or if they were seen with expensive jewelry. Even if they aren't, the victims of a major crime are often still arrested for one of several lesser ones, including [[JaywalkingWillRuinYourLife jaywalking]].
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* ''WebVideo/DragonBallZAbridged'': Cell makes a BlackHumor parody while chasing Android 18 with the intent of absorbing her and evolving into his perfect form.

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--> '''Cell:''' Just look at what she's wearing! She's practically ''asking'' to get absorbed!
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--->'''Brian:''' What if the woman was raped?
---> '''Peter:''' She should have thought of that before asking me for directions.

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* ''WesternAnimation/SpongeBobSquarePants'': In the episode "Stuck in the Wringer", when [=SpongeBob=] hits his RageBreakingPoint with [[IdiotHoudini Patrick]] (whose stupidity is ruining his life) and gives him a TheReasonYouSuckSpeech, the townspeople catch wind of it and angrily scold ''[=SpongeBob=]'' for chewing out Patrick.
-->'''Sandals:''' You know, kid, your body isn't the problem. It's your heart. [[KickTheDog You deserve what you've gotten.]] [[ScrewThisImOuttaHere Come on, we're out of here]]. Some people are just born mean.

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-> '''Haruka:''' [[SchoolgirlLesbians Two women]] behaving [[DudeShesLikeInAComa like that]] with each other. You're filthy! Both you ''AND'' Natsuki Kuga! (Shizuru slaps her)
-> '''Shizuru:''' [[AmbiguousSituation What happened]] was something that ''I'' did to ''her''. I will not have you insulting Natsuki.

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-> '''Haruka:''' [[SchoolgirlLesbians Two women]] women behaving [[DudeShesLikeInAComa like that]] that with each other. You're filthy! Both you ''AND'' Natsuki Kuga! (Shizuru Kuga!\\
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'''Shizuru:''' [[AmbiguousSituation What happened]] happened was something that ''I'' did to ''her''. I will not have you insulting Natsuki.

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WhyDidYouMakeMeHitYou is one of the forms of victim blaming. Can also overlap with SlutShaming.

For more information on the subject, see UsefulNotes.VictimBlaming. Compare GoodVictimsBadVictims, which is when writers use specific character types to influence audience feelings about a victim in a work.

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WhyDidYouMakeMeHitYou is one of the forms of victim blaming.victim-blaming. Can also overlap with SlutShaming.

For more information on the subject, see UsefulNotes.VictimBlaming.UsefulNotes/VictimBlaming. Compare GoodVictimsBadVictims, which is when writers use specific character types to influence audience feelings about a victim in a work.



* ''Manga/AssassinationClassroom'': Kunugigaoka divides students into A, B, C, D and E classes based on grades, with the Class E students having the lowest grades and being placed in a separate campus away from the main school with sub-par resources. No concessions are made for students no matter their reasons for having poor grades, meaning many of the Class E students are perfectly intelligent and capable, yet are essentially punished for circumstances out of their control.
* ''Anime/MyHime'': Yukino accuses Shizuru of [[AmbiguousSituation doing]] ''[[AmbiguousSituation something]]'' [[AmbiguousSituation to Natsuki in her sleep]]. Haruka declares that relationships between women are disgusting, and that both Shizuru ''and'' Natsuki are filthy, despite clearly having heard Yukino say that Shizuru did it "while Natsuki was sleeping". What's more, Haruka had just witnessed Shizuru [[DudeShesLikeInAComa kissing an unconscious Natsuki, earlier]]. In a rare case of the perpetrator defending the victim, Shizuru speaks up, declaring, "What happened was something that ''I'' did to ''her''. I will not allow you to insult Natsuki."

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* ''Manga/AssassinationClassroom'': Kunugigaoka divides students into A, B, C, D D, and E classes based on grades, with the Class E students having the lowest grades and being placed in a separate campus away from the main school with sub-par resources. No concessions are made for students no matter their reasons for having poor grades, meaning many of the Class E students are perfectly intelligent and capable, yet are essentially punished for circumstances out of their control.
* ''Anime/MyHime'': Yukino accuses Shizuru of [[AmbiguousSituation doing]] ''[[AmbiguousSituation something]]'' [[AmbiguousSituation to Natsuki in her sleep]]. Haruka declares that relationships between women are disgusting, and that both Shizuru ''and'' Natsuki are filthy, despite clearly having heard Yukino say that Shizuru did it "while Natsuki was sleeping". What's more, Haruka had just witnessed Shizuru [[DudeShesLikeInAComa kissing an unconscious Natsuki, Natsuki earlier]]. In a rare case of the perpetrator defending the victim, Shizuru speaks up, declaring, "What happened was something that ''I'' did to ''her''. I will not allow you to insult Natsuki."



* ''ComicBook/JudgeDredd'': This is part of the Judges over-the-top attitude to policing. The Judges will often arrest the victims of a crime for "enticement", if for example, their car was stolen in a high-crime district or if they were seen with expensive jewelry. Even if they aren't, the victims of a major crime are often still arrested for one of several lesser ones, including [[JaywalkingWillRuinYourLife jaywalking]].

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* ''ComicBook/JudgeDredd'': This is part of the Judges Judges' over-the-top attitude to policing. The Judges will often arrest the victims of a crime for "enticement", if for example, their car was stolen in a high-crime district or if they were seen with expensive jewelry. Even if they aren't, the victims of a major crime are often still arrested for one of several lesser ones, including [[JaywalkingWillRuinYourLife jaywalking]].



* ''Film/PulpFiction'': Also an example of GreyAndGreyMorality. When Butch refuses to take a dive in his boxing match, he inadvertantly kills his opponent, and reasons that the guy deserved it for being an inferior boxer ("If he hadn't laced his gloves up in the first place he'd still be alive.") Of course, it ''could'' also be argued that if the opponent hadn't agreed to a fixed fight in the first place he'd still be alive.

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* ''Film/PulpFiction'': Also an example of GreyAndGreyMorality. When Butch refuses to take a dive in his boxing match, he inadvertantly inadvertently kills his opponent, and reasons that the guy deserved it for being an inferior boxer ("If he hadn't laced his gloves up in the first place he'd still be alive.") Of course, it ''could'' also be argued that if the opponent hadn't agreed to a fixed fight in the first place he'd still be alive.



* ''Film/Scream3'': The film reveals that Sidney's mother Maureen Prescott was once an aspiring actress named Rina Reynolds who was gangraped at a party. [[spoiler:John Milton]], the leader of the gangrape, argues that "Nothing happened to her that she didn't invite... in one way or another no matter what she said afterwards."

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* ''Film/Scream3'': The film reveals that Sidney's mother Maureen Prescott was once an aspiring actress named Rina Reynolds who was gangraped gang-raped at a party. [[spoiler:John Milton]], the leader of the gangrape, gang rape, argues that "Nothing happened to her that she didn't invite... in one way or another no matter what she said afterwards."



* In ''Literature/TheHandmaidsTale'', the Aunts preach that Janine was to blame for her being gang-raped at fourteen, insisting she led her rapists on and that God was "teach[ing] her a lesson". The other Handmaids are forced to repeat this to Janine over and over, until she finally breaks down and 'agrees' that it was her fault. The Aunts in general state that [[ImAManICantHelpIt men can't always control themselves]] and that it's up to women to keep themselves modest so men won't be tempted. 

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* In ''Literature/TheHandmaidsTale'', the Aunts preach that Janine was to blame for her being gang-raped at fourteen, insisting she led her rapists on and that God was "teach[ing] her a lesson". The other Handmaids are forced to repeat this to Janine over and over, over until she finally breaks down and 'agrees' that it was her fault. The Aunts in general state that [[ImAManICantHelpIt men can't always control themselves]] and that it's up to women to keep themselves modest so men won't be tempted. 



* ''Series/TheFactsOfLife''. Natalie had a NearRapeExperience that traumatized her. At the end, she goes to a self defense class in which the instructor goes into detail on how Natalie could of prevented the encounter. The way he was phrasing it comes across as if he was blaming her for not being better prepared.

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* ''Series/TheFactsOfLife''. Natalie had a NearRapeExperience that traumatized her. At the end, she goes to a self defense self-defense class in which the instructor goes into detail on how Natalie could of have prevented the encounter. The way he was phrasing it comes across as if he was blaming her for not being better prepared.



** Another episode of ''Leverage'' has a corrupt Vice-President at a food company destroying reports of tainted food. He justifies it to the Leverage Team by saying that the package specifically states to heat the food to a particular temperature to avoid bacteria, so that if people get sick, it's their own fault for not following proper instructions. This is a subversion, however, as he's threatening Hardison as he says it.

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** Another episode of ''Leverage'' has a corrupt Vice-President at a food company destroying reports of tainted food. He justifies it to the Leverage Team by saying that the package specifically states to heat the food to a particular temperature to avoid bacteria, bacteria so that if people get sick, it's their own fault for not following proper instructions. This is a subversion, however, as he's threatening Hardison as he says it.



** Kamoshida humiliates Ryuji by telling everyone about his home life in a bid to make his volleyball team the only frontline sports team in the school. This causes Ryuji to attack him, and Kamoshida [[DisproportionateRetribution retaliates by breaking Ryuji's leg]] in 'self defense', then disbands the track team, causing his teammates to view him as a traitor.

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** Kamoshida humiliates Ryuji by telling everyone about his home life in a bid to make his volleyball team the only frontline sports team in the school. This causes Ryuji to attack him, and Kamoshida [[DisproportionateRetribution retaliates by breaking Ryuji's leg]] in 'self defense', 'self-defense', then disbands the track team, causing his teammates to view him as a traitor.



** In "Screams of Silence: The Story of Brenda Q.", Quagmire stages an intervention for Brenda, who's been [[DomesticAbuse abused by her boyfriend, Jeff]]. He gives her a tearful speech, saying that she's chosen to make her life a living hell by staying with Jeff and that she's not a "woman" since he believes a woman wouldn't tolerate this kind of treatment.

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** In "Screams of Silence: The Story of Brenda Q.", Quagmire stages an intervention for Brenda, who's been [[DomesticAbuse abused by her boyfriend, boyfriend Jeff]]. He gives her a tearful speech, saying that she's chosen to make her life a living hell by staying with Jeff and that she's not a "woman" since he believes a woman wouldn't tolerate this kind of treatment.



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-> '''Haruka:''' Two women behaving [[DudeShesLikeInAComa like]] [[SchoolgirlLesbians that]] with each other. You're filthy! Both you ''AND'' Natsuki Kuga! (Shizuru slaps her)

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-> '''Haruka:''' [[SchoolgirlLesbians Two women women]] behaving [[DudeShesLikeInAComa like]] [[SchoolgirlLesbians like that]] with each other. You're filthy! Both you ''AND'' Natsuki Kuga! (Shizuru slaps her)
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** [[WesternAnimation/Rango Rattlesnake Jake]] shames a six-year-old [[WesternAnimation/GravityFalls Gideon Gleeful]] for being raped by Bill Cipher because it makes him impure and possibly gay, and claims he has to be raped again to be "cured."
** [[WesternAnimation/Freaktown Boo Boo]] blames Priscilla for her own assault, even though Princess set it up.

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** [[WesternAnimation/Rango [[{{WesternAnimation/Rango}} Rattlesnake Jake]] shames a six-year-old [[WesternAnimation/GravityFalls Gideon Gleeful]] for being raped by Bill Cipher because it makes him impure and possibly gay, and claims he has to be raped again to be "cured."
** [[WesternAnimation/Freaktown [[{{WesternAnimation/Freaktown}} Boo Boo]] blames Priscilla for her own assault, even though Princess Boo Boo set it up.
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** Basil Baker's father implied Basil's rape was due to naivety, saying he's old enough to know about "stranger danger."
** Bill Cipher shames a six-year-old Gideon for being raped because it makes him impure and possibly gay, and claims he has to be raped ''again'' to be "cured."
** Princess blames Priscilla for her own assault, even though Princess set it up.
** Miss Kitty is assaulted outside of a club, and when the police arrive, they arrest ''her'' for "soliciting" because she's a sex worker, which is also why she was attacked to begin with. To contrast, her assailants only get charged for "disturbing the peace."

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** Basil Baker's [[WesternAnimation/TheGreatMouseDetective Basil]]'s father implied Basil's rape was due to naivety, saying he's old enough to know about "stranger danger."
** Bill Cipher [[WesternAnimation/Rango Rattlesnake Jake]] shames a six-year-old [[WesternAnimation/GravityFalls Gideon Gleeful]] for being raped by Bill Cipher because it makes him impure and possibly gay, and claims he has to be raped ''again'' again to be "cured."
** Princess [[WesternAnimation/Freaktown Boo Boo]] blames Priscilla for her own assault, even though Princess set it up.
** Miss Kitty is assaulted outside of a club, and when the police arrive, they arrest ''her'' her for "soliciting" because she's a sex worker, which is also why she was attacked to begin with. To contrast, her assailants only get charged for "disturbing the peace." "
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-> '''Haruka:''' Two women behaving [[DudeShesLikeInAComa like]] [[SchoolgirlLesbians that]] with each other. You're filthy! Both you ''AND'' Natsuki Kuga! (Shizuru slaps her)
-> '''Shizuru:''' [[AmbiguousSituation What happened]] was something that ''I'' did to ''her''. I will not have you insulting Natsuki.
-->-- ''Anime/MyHime'', Episode 22, "Collapse".


There are crimes in this world. Crimes will typically have a perpetrator/perpetrators and victim or victims.

There are, unfortunately, tendencies in some cultures or between some individuals, to lay the blame for the crime at the feet of the victim, e.g. "If you didn't want your house robbed, you should have locked the door".

In fiction, the Blaming The Victim usually takes on one of two basic forms. In the first, the perpetrator is attempting to justify their own bad behavior.

Another is when a person or group blames the victim to demonstrate to the audience that they are unsympathetic to the victim and/or their plight. This can be allowed to give our hero a chance to engage in ShamingTheMob for a happy ending, or it can be used to set up a DownerEnding, where the victim is denied justice.

This is the favorite tactic of a ManipulativeBastard. Compare and contrast with AssholeVictim (although the perpetrator might try to cast their victim as such) and KickTheSonOfABitch, which is where a character is thought to deserve what happens to them but isn't necessarily blamed for it.

If it's the perpetrators with this mentality it may overlap with NeverMyFault.

WhyDidYouMakeMeHitYou is one of the forms of victim blaming. Can also overlap with SlutShaming.

For more information on the subject, see UsefulNotes.VictimBlaming. Compare GoodVictimsBadVictims, which is when writers use specific character types to influence audience feelings about a victim in a work.

See GuiltComplex and ItsAllMyFault for situations where the victim blames themselves.

As this is both TruthInTelevision and a highly sensitive matter, No Real Life Examples.

!!Examples

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[[folder:Anime and Manga]]
* ''Manga/AssassinationClassroom'': Kunugigaoka divides students into A, B, C, D and E classes based on grades, with the Class E students having the lowest grades and being placed in a separate campus away from the main school with sub-par resources. No concessions are made for students no matter their reasons for having poor grades, meaning many of the Class E students are perfectly intelligent and capable, yet are essentially punished for circumstances out of their control.
* ''Anime/MyHime'': Yukino accuses Shizuru of [[AmbiguousSituation doing]] ''[[AmbiguousSituation something]]'' [[AmbiguousSituation to Natsuki in her sleep]]. Haruka declares that relationships between women are disgusting, and that both Shizuru ''and'' Natsuki are filthy, despite clearly having heard Yukino say that Shizuru did it "while Natsuki was sleeping". What's more, Haruka had just witnessed Shizuru [[DudeShesLikeInAComa kissing an unconscious Natsuki, earlier]]. In a rare case of the perpetrator defending the victim, Shizuru speaks up, declaring, "What happened was something that ''I'' did to ''her''. I will not allow you to insult Natsuki."
* ''Manga/MyLoveStory'', kicking off the entire series, a man who was caught groping Rinko on the train tries to defend himself by saying she was "asking for it". [[{{Understatement}} Takeo disagrees.]] [[MegatonPunch Strongly.]]
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* ''ComicBook/JudgeDredd'': This is part of the Judges over-the-top attitude to policing. The Judges will often arrest the victims of a crime for "enticement", if for example, their car was stolen in a high-crime district or if they were seen with expensive jewelry. Even if they aren't, the victims of a major crime are often still arrested for one of several lesser ones, including [[JaywalkingWillRuinYourLife jaywalking]].
* Julie Winters in ''ComicBook/TheMaxx'' firmly believes that people don't get robbed or raped if they aren't stupid, and dismisses any objections to that worldview as "liberal-feminist garbage". This attitude makes her ''terrible'' in her chosen occupation of "freelance social worker" and is hinted to be the result of her own trauma.
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* Victim-blaming is one of the main themes in the ''Fanfic/{{Eleutherophobia}}'' series, which takes place in an [[TheUnmasquedWorld Unmasqued World]] where thousands of people used to be controlled by {{Puppeteer Parasite}}s.
** [[SparedByTheAdaptation Tom]] blames himself for getting infested at first -- and so do several other people. In ''Back to the Future'', his aunt and uncle say it served him right for wandering into a place he didn't belong; and in ''Ghost in the Shell'', CNN QuoteMine him to make it sound like he was complicit in all the horrible things his Yeerks did.
** Several television personalities in ''Lost World'' claim that people made Yeerks up so they don't have to take responsibility for their own actions.
** ''Total Recall'' mentions the "Vicky Austin argument", named after a Controller who committed suicide on live television. Some lawyers think that any host ''could'' have done that if they ''really'' wanted to, so anyone who didn't (eg: Alloran) was secretly complicit, even though FightingFromTheInside is ''extremely difficult''.
* The main characters of ''Fanfic/MyBravePonyStarfleetMagic'' all blame [[WesternAnimation/MyLittlePonyFriendshipIsMagic Twilight Sparkle]] for [[spoiler:her death at the hands of Raven]].
* ''Fanfic/WithPearlAndRubyGlowing'' deals with victim-blaming in several chapters, fitting its CentralTheme of the struggles rape and abuse victims face.
** Basil Baker's father implied Basil's rape was due to naivety, saying he's old enough to know about "stranger danger."
** Bill Cipher shames a six-year-old Gideon for being raped because it makes him impure and possibly gay, and claims he has to be raped ''again'' to be "cured."
** Princess blames Priscilla for her own assault, even though Princess set it up.
** Miss Kitty is assaulted outside of a club, and when the police arrive, they arrest ''her'' for "soliciting" because she's a sex worker, which is also why she was attacked to begin with. To contrast, her assailants only get charged for "disturbing the peace."
** The police blame Mabel for her gang-rape because she sent the men (who [[{{Catfishing}} claimed to be one boy her age]]) inappropriate pictures of herself (which the men asked her to do). Stan chews them out for this.
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* In ''WesternAnimation/BigHero6'', the villain states that Tadashi's accidental death in a fire was his own fault; it's made worse by the fact that Tadashi only put himself at risk in the first place trying to rescue [[spoiler:the villain, not knowing he'd deliberately started the fire]]. Upon hearing this, Tadashi's brother Hiro [[BerserkButton snaps]] and nearly kills the villain.
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* ''Film/CapeFear'': Explored. Max Cady's rape and battery of a teenage girl appalls his attorney Sam Bowden, who willingly buries the girl's history of promiscuity because he knows it would help Cady get acquitted.
* ''Film/Daredevil2003'': Early in the film, Matt and Foggy are defending a woman named Angela who was raped by a rich and powerful man named Jose Quesada. Both Quesada and his lawyer argue that the sexual encounter was consensual and use Angela's criminal history against her. Quesada is acquitted, leading to Matt taking matters into his own hands.
* In ''Film/{{Insiang}}'', Dado warps Tonya into thinking Insiang charmed him to sleep with her and she ends up scolding her daughter for flirting with him, despite looking hurt and in tears.
* ''Film/PromisingYoungWoman'': Dean Walker and Madison both tell Cassie that Nina shouldn't have expected anything less than "what happened" (her rape) when she went into Al's college room drunk.
* ''Film/PulpFiction'': Also an example of GreyAndGreyMorality. When Butch refuses to take a dive in his boxing match, he inadvertantly kills his opponent, and reasons that the guy deserved it for being an inferior boxer ("If he hadn't laced his gloves up in the first place he'd still be alive.") Of course, it ''could'' also be argued that if the opponent hadn't agreed to a fixed fight in the first place he'd still be alive.
* ''Film/RealGenius'': After Kent sabotages the laser, he tells Knight that it was his own fault for not inspecting the optics before running it.
* ''Film/Scream3'': The film reveals that Sidney's mother Maureen Prescott was once an aspiring actress named Rina Reynolds who was gangraped at a party. [[spoiler:John Milton]], the leader of the gangrape, argues that "Nothing happened to her that she didn't invite... in one way or another no matter what she said afterwards."
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* In ''Literature/TheHandmaidsTale'', the Aunts preach that Janine was to blame for her being gang-raped at fourteen, insisting she led her rapists on and that God was "teach[ing] her a lesson". The other Handmaids are forced to repeat this to Janine over and over, until she finally breaks down and 'agrees' that it was her fault. The Aunts in general state that [[ImAManICantHelpIt men can't always control themselves]] and that it's up to women to keep themselves modest so men won't be tempted. 
* In the first tome of ''Literature/MillenniumSeries'', Lisbeth calls [[spoiler:Harriet Vanger]] a coward for not killing [[spoiler:her]] brother, weeks after she humiliated Nils Larssen, her own abusive guardian. However, by the third book, she matures enough to understand the precise situation.
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* As with many crime procedural shows, this shows up from time to time on the various ''CSI'' series:
** In an episode of ''Series/CSICrimeSceneInvestigation'', "Turning of the Screws" Catherine is looking into the murder of a young girl. She initially suspects the mother's handyman boyfriend, especially after blood is found on a shovel in his truck. However, fingerprints on the shovel reveal it was the mother who killed the girl. The mother then claimed that the girl was trying to come on to the boyfriend. She became convinced of this when the boyfriend gave the girl a lift home from school (which was entirely innocent). Catherine points out that the girl was all of thirteen.
* In ''Series/{{Cursed}}'' Nimue comes to Arthur for help after her village is sacked by the Red Paladins. While she rests at an abbey, Arthur steals the Sword of Power entrusted to her for his own purposes. When the Sword is in turn stolen from him, a furious Nimue confronts him about it and he in turn snaps that it's her fault for trusting him in the first place, as she knew he was a thief and mercenary.
* ''Series/TheFactsOfLife''. Natalie had a NearRapeExperience that traumatized her. At the end, she goes to a self defense class in which the instructor goes into detail on how Natalie could of prevented the encounter. The way he was phrasing it comes across as if he was blaming her for not being better prepared.
* In ''Series/GameOfThrones'', Brienne and Jaime come across the bodies of three women who were hanged by Stark soldiers for having sex with Lannister soldiers, whom they are currently at war with; they state the women deserved it because they betrayed their country. Brienne [[CurbStompBattle disagrees]]. To make matters worse, it's left ambiguous if the three women willingly had sex with the Lannister soldiers at all, seeing as both sides are guilty of committing war crimes against the smallfolk.
* Many a lawyer or media personality on the various ''Franchise/LawAndOrder'' series will employ a strategy of Blaming The Victim, hoping to sway the jury to either an acquittal or a hung jury (which is usually just as good as an acquittal). Depending on the judge involved, they may or may not be able to use it as a part of their defense, the opening argument, or the closing argument. Expect the D.A. to protest vociferously to such tactics.
** One particular episode of ''Series/LawAndOrderSVU'' has a victim who wrote a novel similar to ''Literature/FiftyShadesOfGray''. The perpetrator tries to say that it was a completely consensual act based on her books, hoping the public, and thus the jury pool, will engage in Blaming The Victim and feel that she deserved it. A.D.A. Barba tricks the defendant into demonstrating with a belt how he choked the woman. The man responds, after some provocation, into pulling hard on the belt in front of the jury. Barba demonstrated that as hard as it had pulled on his throat, it had barely left a mark, then showed photographs of the deep bruising it had done on the woman's throat. The jury rejects the defendant's argument.
* ''Series/{{Leverage}}'', more than a few [[VillainOfTheWeek Villains of the Week]] defend themselves by laying blame at the feet of their victims, but the standout example has to be Greg "The Mako" Sherman. When instructing his underlings on how to rip off their victims, he declares, "If they're too dumb to hold on to their money, they don't deserve to have it."
** Another episode of ''Leverage'' has a corrupt Vice-President at a food company destroying reports of tainted food. He justifies it to the Leverage Team by saying that the package specifically states to heat the food to a particular temperature to avoid bacteria, so that if people get sick, it's their own fault for not following proper instructions. This is a subversion, however, as he's threatening Hardison as he says it.
* ''Series/LukeCage2016'': When she was a young girl, Mariah Dillard was molested by her Uncle Pete. During an argument with her cousin Cornell, he accuses Mariah of bringing her abuse on herself by "flirting" with their uncle leading to her killing him in a fit of rage.
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* ''VideoGame/Persona5'':
** Futaba's mother was [[spoiler:killed by Akechi via mental shutdown]] and Futaba was blamed for her death after [[spoiler:Shido forged]] a suicide note. This resulted in Futaba being treated terribly by her guardians and developing intense agoraphobia along with auditory hallucinations. Things get better after she joins the Phantom Thieves, however.
** Kamoshida humiliates Ryuji by telling everyone about his home life in a bid to make his volleyball team the only frontline sports team in the school. This causes Ryuji to attack him, and Kamoshida [[DisproportionateRetribution retaliates by breaking Ryuji's leg]] in 'self defense', then disbands the track team, causing his teammates to view him as a traitor.
** Akechi is [[spoiler:the bastard son of Shido]] and a prostitute. Eventually, his mother couldn't bear the shame of having a child out of wedlock anymore and killed herself, leaving Akechi in foster care where he was alienated for his heritage. He refers to himself as a cursed child and cites himself as the reason his mother died, though he also [[spoiler:has a massive grudge against Shido]].
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[[folder:Western Animation]]
* ''WesternAnimation/FamilyGuy'':
** In "Screams of Silence: The Story of Brenda Q.", Quagmire stages an intervention for Brenda, who's been [[DomesticAbuse abused by her boyfriend, Jeff]]. He gives her a tearful speech, saying that she's chosen to make her life a living hell by staying with Jeff and that she's not a "woman" since he believes a woman wouldn't tolerate this kind of treatment.
** In "Partial Terms of Endearment", the family debate the subject of abortion with a newly pro-life Peter.
-->'''Brian:''' What if the woman was raped?
--> '''Peter:''' She should have thought of that before asking me for directions.
* ''WesternAnimation/TeenTitans'' Slade justifies his manipulation and control of Terra this way.
--> '''Slade:''' She wanted control, and that's what I gave her; my control, her body.
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